There's another person

Bismillah..

Assalamualaikum..

Today I am feeling inspired and super touched after heard a story from my colleague.

The story about marriage life, being a single parent, being alone and depressed, being tested..

She is a happy go lucky and really jolly person. I never yet saw her being moody or what not during my working time. I always find her jolly. But less than i know, her personal life is miserable. And last night she talked to me about her life.

After hearing her touching story, i am truly inspired of her toughness and her self-conscious to bear all the problems by herself.

Not that I will tell about her story, instead I wanted to highlight some important notes to myself and may it is useful for others. InsyaAllah..

1) never ever judge a person's life solely based on their out character. We never knew their story. It may be worst that we could imagine. (She told me that she have to make herself happy or she could gone mental)

2) Jangan ingat cerita kita lebih teruk dari orang. Ada lagi yang teruk. Ada yang lebih menderita. Ambil cerita mereka sebagai pengajaran untuk jadikan kita lebih tabah menghadapi dugaan. Allah tidak akan menguji hambanya lebih dari apa yang mereka mampu.

3) Sederita mana kita, cuba untuk sembunyikan, atau jangan tunjukkan dekat orang yang kita terlalu menderita atau tengah bersedih. Cerita kita mungkin hanya sejentik dari cerita mereka yang lebih menderita. Tak perlu untuk satu dunia tahu. Wallahualam. ( Or at least on social media where people observe our move.)

4) cuba jadikan diri seorang pendengar yang baik. InsyaAllah.. Trust me, when you become a good listener, there's a lot that you can gain from people's story. It's not that you cannot tell people. But minimize your story to people who really care about you because sometimes their interest about your story is just to judge you or tell others their judgment about you.

P/s: akak, little that i know about you.. I am inspired.. I am touched.. I hope you will find your happiness, insyaAllah. Keep yourself strong and keep pray to Allah. ;')